Ordinary in a Marriage Isn’t Enough – Part 1 Today we begin to discuss the most common of relationships, marriage – the relationship that consists of only you and him/her, two people. The Bible says for this reason [a relationship like this] a man will leave [all that he knows] …
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In the (somewhat of a) documentary, Michael Jackson’s Journey from Motown to Off the Wall, I heard Verdine White, bass player for Earth, Wind, & Fire, imply that at the center of their talent and craft is “love”. He was one of many successful and talented professionals who commented and …
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Performance Based Relationships – Part 2 “Most human love is performance-based.” – A Night with a Stranger Do you know what that means? Most human love? Normal human love. The love you identify most with is performance-based. This means you more than likely have never encountered love that’s not performance-based. …
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Performance Based Relationships – Part 1 Anytime your performance is used as a way of measuring relationships, you are a slave to that relationship and to that other party. What do you think I mean by “performance”? It’s when you’re required to behave, respond, and act like your significant other …
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Are You Pretending to Love Him or Her? – Part 2 We ended our last post with the thought of putting God on display. But what would it look like if we put God on display in our relationships? How much differently would the relationship look? What actions can we …
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Are You Pretending to Love Him or Her? – Part 1 Have you ever wondered (after being in a relationship for a while) what happened to the love you once had? This is a question many ponder day after day. It seems like at the beginning of a relationship there’s …
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How to Evaluate Whether Someone Loves You – Part 3 It’s in what you give Pamela and I have a rule (or family value) that says we’re not friends with people because they are our friends in return. We’re a person’s friend even when they are not ours. I guess you …
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How to Evaluate Whether Someone Loves You – Part 2 In our last post, I was just starting to go to the left, but in this post, I’m going as far as Pamela will allow me. I want to make certain no one ever fools you again into believing they …
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How to Evaluate Whether Someone Loves You – Part 1 It’s time to blow some love bubbles. Most of us love to hear those words, “I love you”, from the ones that matter most. But did you know that “I love you” is one of the most overused phrases. It’s …
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If the Tower of Love represents the source of where love can be found, then we need to understand what surrounds the tower. What happens if you don’t enter this fictional tower? What does life look like without the presence or understanding of how love impacts life? Hate is love-abuse …
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