The 16 Levels of Love – Part 12 Most people would rather skip past level-eleven.  At a first glance, I too wanted to run past level-eleven.  I had no idea what this level had to do with “love”. What you may not know is there is but one major thing …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 11 The label on level 10 may not be enticing or appealing enough to get you to stop on this level, but I must pursued you because it has a hidden secret that will change your world. You see, the things we do …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 10 Are you a record-keeper?  Do you know what I mean by that question?  What I mean by the question is are you holding on to the memory of when someone wronged you and storing it as a record in the mental file …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 9 I often wonder why people think their feelings are so important.  What I mean is this; why are we as a society acting out of what we feel, how we feel?  Because this is normal behavior, we sign off on it as …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 8 It’s not a surprise that I want the attention all on me.  Isn’t that the reason love works and is so cool?  I have someone who is totally interested in me?  Someone who loves me for me?  There’s this person out there …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 7 It’s beginning to sink in more (at least for me).  What’s that?  The fact that “normal” exists in our lives and goes undetected until exposed for the problem that it is.  We’re only on number 6 of the 16 levels of love …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 6 I realized something.  “Normal, natural, common” starts so early it’s almost invisible.  It’s in plain sight but never seen.  Today, I want to show you something that’s there, but we’re unable to see it.   If you have children this example will …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 5 I’m one that must go against the grain.  I have a problem when someone says that’s just the way it’s supposed to be, normal.  When I was in elementary (grade-school), I made the best grades of any student.  When I was transitioning …

The 16 Levels of Love – Part 4 I often tease with my wife by singing a Luther Vandross song.  This song only comes to mind when someone we know is having relationship (marital) issues.  The song is “Love the One You’re With“.  The words go a little something like …